We are not influenced by others but the power of the truth behind their statement and experience...mostly others think of us what we show to them of ourselves...Have you ever said good to a bad mannered person or vice versa?...As long as you are fair and understand the power of truth, right & wrong; you need not to care what others think about you... According to our judgment rather intelligence we act and react...therefore we need to insist upon our perspective and not that of others...Mohan