A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFETIME…

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person…

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .

it is usually to meet a need you have expressed or they need. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually… They may seem like a godsend, and they are! and you are to them. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away…Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand…

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on…

When people come into your life for a SEASON. . .

Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you’ve never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy…

Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season…

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;

Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation…Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but, friendship is clairvoyant…

AND you are for the same reason, being a part of my life…

Work like you don't need the money,

Love like you've never been hurt,

And dance like no one is watching!

 Stay Blessed…

Mohan S Negi

A Creed to Live By

We all are different and each of us is unique in some way…So never underestimate your worth by comparing yourself with others. Always remember there is no completion in destiny, run your own race with peace and let others, too…

Set your own goals in life as only you know what is best for you…The real potential of one’s abilities is always hidden in their deep interest…

Life is short therefore, don’t let your life slip thru your fingers by living in the past or for the future; by living your life one day at a time, you will live all the days of your life…

Never ever give up when you still have something to give...Most of the time, the last try witnesses the success…

No one is perfect except GOD, so never be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect; it is this fragile thread that binds humans to each other, besides it keeps courage and confidence to strive towards perfection…

Nothing is for sure until it is experienced, so do not take for granted the things closest to your heart rather adhere to them as you would to your life; for without them, life is meaningless…

The volume of success depends on the risk taken so never be afraid to encounter risks, it is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave and wise...

Love is essence of life so never shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find; the quickest way to receive love is to give love - the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly - and the best way to keep love forever is to give it wings…

Have a blissful life ever…

Mohan

The teacher…My way to see him…

In normal course, we understand the importance of a teacher to make us imbibe academic values in order to train our brain for our physical needs…but it is highly commercialized as well…as you pay for it…rather buyit…In true sense, a teacher doesn’t trade with you but he prepares you for spiritual elevation of your  soul and interestingly for his own cause…

My firm belief is that our prime responsibility is to be a teacher and unless we do not share or contribute our knowledge, information, experience and wisdom to the society, our soul cannot be emancipated…And the beauty of the whole process is that you don’t need to go to find such teacher (guru) but you have to prepare yourself for elevation…and trust me the real teacher will find you for sure…

You can never find GOD but you can only prepare yourself that GOD finds you…If you see the history of such teachers all through, you will notice that they all found GOD in their visions that they transformed into some religions…GOD has given us HIS sanctity in form of WISDOM and we need to honor it by maintaining our ethics reflecting in our morals…

Stay blessed friends…

Mohan

Problems & Opportunities In Life

Life is not something that happens according to a planned agenda...

It is a procession of happenings with unexpected opportunities especially disguised in problems…

In fact each problem is an opportunity for us…You only need to look at it from the other end as well…

Mohan 

Impact Of Positive Vibrations...

Journey of life...My perspective...

I do not know what journey of life means to you…Either you know it perfectly or  just implement it as it  is …Have you ever wondered why are you at your present place of existence…Why you could not be somebody else for example Bill Gates or so on…You are just implementing your journey…precisely your destiny…One thing could be right for you but not for others and vice versa…Killing of animal could not be right for you but it could be right or religion for a butcher for their survival…We form our perspectives because of our experiences, information, knowledge and experiments that become our  faith then ethics and our ethics are our religions…Our path of journey has three main reasons…

(1) psychic attachment to materials, individuals and enjoyment thereof...

(2) imprints of sins...and  

(3) ignorance of truth; major causes of bonds of soul to suffer...

There are many ways for salvation of soul but very hard to exercise them into practice and therefore, we conveniently ignore them…Yet in my view, the shortest way for emancipation of soul is kindness…just be kind to all and feel the change in life, a real enlightenment that occurs purely  from the heart through purifying soul…Stay blessed friends…

Mohan

WHO IS GOD...

What you think who is GOD…

My question is for the people who don’t believe in GOD’s existence…

Yes folks  I  agree with that there is no physical form of GOD because of HIS only being the unique power that is everywhere and in everything…

GOD never dies nor takes birth…mortality belongs to existence of an physical entity, periodically, and that is why everything that exists transforms into another form after certain period of time…

Now the question is then why we do trust and adore GOD…

Simple analogy: the unique power (as we call GOD) is combination of morals such as: love, charity, kindness, helping the hapless, sacrifices for the noble causes and such great many virtues…

For experiencing all these virtues, we need a channel and that channel we call GOD….

In reality we follow these morals behind the person who carries these finger prints of GOD…for instance JESUS in Christianity and such other religious legends in different religions of the whole world…

People may deny the existence of GOD but they cannot deny the power of these virtues…

Always maintain and follow these virtues irrespective of your faith in your respective religious super-power(s)…

Stay blessed friends…

Mohan

My encounter with GOD

WOMAN AND HER PROXIMITY TO GOD

I used to wonder why GOD does not have HIS substitute…so once I asked HIM about this with specific question:

“O dear GOD what I will do in case you sleep or go somewhere for a while as I can’t move an inch without you”…

HE smiled and revealed a secret…

He said “ I have given you my utmost beautiful creation ever I worked over”…

I was surprised how could be that I never noticed it…so I asked HIM once more…

” really GOD…and what is that?”…

HE smiled and said; “ I have given you a woman”…

I was depressed…so I encountered HIM…” so what…you have a man as well…we both are humans and your children”…

And as usual, HE again smiled and said;

“She is always there when you need care, 

when you need courage, 

when you need faith and confidence, 

when you need love and affection, 

and above all when you need me…

all the time she represents me”

I had no option but my complete submission…

So my friends, take a look at her especially:..

When she walks for miles to see you…

when she says “sorry” even though she didn't do anything wrong…

when she cries because she still loves and misses you…

when she still tries to get you back…

when she no matter how much you have hurt her still loves you…

when she stops her argument with you to save your relationship…

when she continuously makes you feel special and tries to make you happy…

when she is upset but does not tell you as she thinks she is annoying you…

When she wants to leave you because of your rude behavior but she is not able to do so…

She only does what GOD does with our life and in our life…Never let her go from your thoughts, from your prayers and from your life…even in extreme conditions because sometime we do experience helplessness despite our faith in GOD and in HIS presence…

Have a blessed life…

Mohan

EASIER VERSES TOUGHER 

Remember, it is always Easier to retaliate, tougher to endure; Easier to mask your weakness, tougher to reveal them;  Easier to deny the truth, tougher to accept them;  Easier to waste time, tougher to expend it wisely;  Easier to criticize others, tougher to praise one's goodness;  Easier to read religious scriptures, tougher to put them into practice;  Easier to complain, tougher to sacrifice;  Easier to expect, tougher to give;  Easier to pray, tougher to surrender…

Choosing the easier path is human, BUT walking on the path that is always GOOD, always right, not necessarily pleasant is the road that leads you to bliss of the Divine…   AND   Divinity sees only beauty, knows only truth, feels only love…Stay blessed friends…

Mohan 

SOMETHING YOU WOULD LIKE TO PONDER…

Divinity lies within US... 

According to an old Hindu legend, there was a time when all human beings were gods, but they abused their divinity.

So, Brahma, the chief God, decided to take the divinity away from them and hide it somewhere they could never find it.

Brahma called a council of the gods to help him decide where to hide the divinity.

“Let’s bury it deep in the earth,” said the gods. But Brahma answered, “Humans will dig into the earth and find it.”

Some gods suggested, “Let’s sink it in the deepest ocean.” But Brahma said, “No, Human will learn to dive into the ocean and will find it.”
 

Then some gods suggested, “Let’s take it to the top of the highest mountain and hide it there.”

Brahma replied, “Human will eventually climb every mountain and take up their divinity.” Then all the gods gave up and said, “We do not know where to hide it, because it seems that there is no place on earth or ocean that human beings will not eventually reach.”

Brahma thought for a long time said, “We will hide their divinity deep into the center of their own being, Humans will search for it here and there but they won’t look for the divinity inside their true selves.”

All the gods agreed that this was the perfect hiding place, and the deed was done.
 

And since then, humans have been going up and down the earth, digging, diving, climbing, and exploring, searching for something, which already lies within them…

“Divinity lies within us all"

COOL…NOW YOU KNOW THAT THE DIVINITY LIES…WHERE...STAY BLESSED…

-Mohan 

Love children...They are just a purpose all the times...

The Divine Stability...

What is the real weakness we experience in life...

To give up on our dreams because one didn't come true...

To give up on our efforts because one of them failed...

To condemn all our friends because one betrayed us...

To believe in love because someone was unfaithful or didn't love us back...

To throw away all our chances to be happy because we did not succeed on the first attempt...

NEVER hate all the roses because we got scratched with one thorn...

JUST REMEMBER...

Another chance may come up...

Another friend is waiting…

A new love is on the way to fulfil the life…

A renewed strength to continue our journey…

Be persistent & Look for happiness in every moment...in every day...

The sure path to failure is, to give up!   It is often through failure that future success come…

KEEP TRYING!!!

LIFE DOES SMILE IF WE

Live well, Laugh often & Love with all purity of heart every moment and every day...

There's only one corner of the universe we can be certain of improving and that's our own self…

Stay blessed…

Mohan

Be a good listener and be wise...

When you refuse to listen to a differing opinion, that’s a sure sign of weakness and insecurity. But on the contrary, when you respect and welcome the opinions of others, you simply enhance the universe of your confidence, in your own opinions…Always remember we become wise when we listen…Mohan

Live a life with a purpose to avoid HALLUCINATION...

A few people like to live in hallucination…It is basically a root to get sympathy only to please their ego and sex oriented desire; and perhaps past state of mind…and that happens mostly when you achieve nothing in life except a falls entity without any purpose…even losing essence of wisdom of life because of their imagination being living in the past…Live with a purpose to make life more meaningful and alive…Mohan

Does Love Hurts...

Everyone says that love hurts,

but that's not true. Loneliness

hurts. Rejection hurts. Everyone

confuse these things with love,

but in reality love is the only

thing in this world that

covers up all the pain and

makes us feel

wonderful again.

Mohan

RELATIONSHIP...

A relationship is not

based on the length

of time you spent

together; it's based

on the foundation

you built together.

Good relationship doesn't need

promise, terms and conditions.

It just needs a SHE who can

 trust

and a HE who can be 

loyal.

Mohan

TRUST & LOVE...

"I trust you” is a better compliment

than  “I love you” because you

may not always trust the person

you love but you can always love

the person you trust...

Mohan

      

 

The BEST way to say good bye to the world…

The best way I suppose could be that we listen to life what it says to us…Life always longs for…

Good health is very important to be stress free and happy...If you do not enjoy good health, you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct something from your happiness…
Enough money to survive…It doesn't need to run into millions of millions, but it should be enough to provide for comforts, and there should be something to spare for recreation—eating out, going to the movies, travel and holidays in the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be demoralizing...Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one’s own eyes…

Home sweet home…Doesn't matter how small it could be…Rented places can never give you the comfort or security of a home that is yours for keeps. If it has garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and blossom, and cultivate a sense of kinship with them…

An understanding companion, be it your spouse or a friend…If you have too many misunderstandings, it robs you of your peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to be quarrelling all the time…

By law of deeds and words, there would always be someone better then you in life…so never envying those who have done better than you in life—risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be corroding and heart corrupting; avoid comparing yourself with others…

Hobbies are hidden potentials that everyone possesses…You need to cultivate a hobby or two that will fulfil you…like gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music…whatever you are inclined to…And please be wise enough to understand that going to clubs or parties to get free drinks, or to meet celebrities, is a criminal waste of time. It’s important to concentrate on something that keeps you occupied meaningfully…

Self- introspection is very important in life to determine your path, therefore, every morning and evening devote 10 minutes to introspection…In the mornings, 10 minutes should be spent in keeping the mind absolutely still, and five minutes listing the things you have to do that day. In the evenings, five minutes should be set aside to keep the mind still and 10 to go over the tasks you had intended to do…

Above all you need to control over your aggressions…So don’t lose your temper…Try not to be short-tempered, or vengeful. Even when a friend has been rude, just move on…

Because life says…
WHEN THE TIME COMES TO GO, ONE SHOULD GO LIKE A PERSON WITHOUT ANY REGRET OR GRIEVANCE AGAINST ANYONE…

---MOHAN

Magic of Hugs...

The impact of Real Feelings...

Real feelings do reciprocate without reasoning and recipient acknowledges in self-realization…It is true…It matters only the way we think of someone like faith and hopes…

May god grace you with blessed life ever…

Mohan

Mythology and religion...

Mythology is normally a set of widely held but exaggerated or false stories or beliefs…Anything that is repeated with such euphoria turns into sort of religion but not necessarily be a religion in true senses …Mohan

You are the Master of your own destiny...

Time is always not the same…It keeps changing and so are our circumstances…Often we face hard realities of life…in such eventualities, we need to have endurances to bear out hardship…Have perseverance and solace to your mind by reminding this too shall pass…Time is the best healer…Mohan

LOVE IS ESSENCE OF LIFE...EVERY ONE WANTS TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED...

SPIRITUALITY CAN NOT BE EXPERIENCED OVER GRUDGES…

Nature keeps us connected all the times...

We all are connected with each other primarily through substance of air, water, earth, fire & sky or universe… And that is how we are linked heavenly & earthly even with the nature and all of the nature…Rest other connections are secondary after we are born; and most of them are results of our choices...as it is well said that we meet by chance but we make friends and acquaintances by choice…So please respect the presence of everything that we see and experience on the earth and on the universe for that matter…Mohan

Never ever give-up…Your hidden potential does respond while pushed unto the wall…Courage and Spirit are the prime parentage of success…

Never Be Judgmental In Your Judgment...

WHAT GOD WANTS FROM ME...

GOD only wants everyone to be his extended helping hands...an epitome of KINDNESS…For me praising GOD is entirely different then serving HIM through HIS hapless lambs…Better serve HIM than pray HIM…If I depend on my memory, even Jesus himself  set this example once before his friends…Mohan

A MISTAKE... A SIN... AND AN ATTITUDE...

Merely saying sorry and go over to a clean page alone can't help you get rid of your mistakes...you need to correct them...otherwise these mistakes will turn into guilt only to haunt you throughout your life...Never repeat a mistake…When we repeat a mistake; it is no longer a mistake but it turns into a sin besides restructuring our attitude…So be careful in attitude...at least you would be wise enough to not to repeat them...Have a guilt free life ever...Mohan

The lessons we learn in life...

YOUR positivity is your strength in any eventuality…

EXTREME of laughter ends only in tears –

--sometime happily and sometime sadly….

SCARS are lessons of life; a real mark of your victory and survival…
STRENGTH and happiness come within and therefore, entirely depends on our determinations…
TRUST, faith, love and charity never end…
SALVATION is the biggest reason for our living unto the last breath…
PAIN is the only process of our emancipation…so BE thankful that it happened…
Pain happens only for a reason that is caused by our psyche attachment to persons, materials and enjoyment thereof; Ignorance of truth and Imprints of SIN…
HAPPINESS is only state of mind and LOVE is only a feeling; one belongs to us and other belongs to soul…Happiness is only our choice and love only happens…There is no such treason but only a repercussion…
COURAGE and confidence is the key… so never ever give up…

AND THE BEST PART OF LIFE IS: Every night we go to bed, without any assurance of being alive the next
morning but still we set the alarms to wake up…THAT'S HOPE

WE plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future.
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

WE see the world suffering. But still we get married…THAT'S LOVE

Have a beautiful day my friend…Stay blessed…Mohan

Incredible Don't...

Don't hesitate to reach out for help; we all need it from time to time...

Don't run away from love but towards love, because it is your deepest joy...

Don't wait for what you want to come to you; go after it with all that you are knowing that life will meet you halfway...

Don't feel like you've lost, when plans and dreams fall short of your hopes... 

Don't cry for the loss, all the time you learn something new, about yourself or about life, so you have progressed...

Don't do anything that takes away, from your self-respect...and feeling good about you is essential to feeling good about life...

Don't ever forget how to laugh, or be too proud to cry, or too stubborn to smile...

Don't ever forget a friend who truly loves you, as it could be that friend who is true to your needs... Don't ever forget who helped you grow as your need for more seeds may often re-appear…

And with all the above, live life to it's fullest....

Have a nice day…

Mohan

The Special Someone...

Never forget "The Someone" who came by chance in life but stayed there with your choice… You have given time to that someone...That means you have already given your life to that someone...Now that someone is your lesson, memory, experience, your plus and minus and above all that someone was once a reason for your existence...
Mohan

HOPE : A REASON TO MOVE...

Why does a soul suffer...

We all are on our own journeys; only to implement our respective destinies that are consequences of our deeds, accomplished in our various incarnations...we get in life only what we give to others... psychic attachment to materials, individuals and enjoyment thereof...imprints of sins...and ignorance of truth are the major curses that bind our soul to continue to suffer...so emancipation of soul is not possible until all three evils are eliminated irrespective of our creed, religion and nation...Mohan  

Is Love Blind...

Love is not blind but when we take it for our exclusive possession, we become blind and then try to hold it…At that point, love turns into our envy and becomes source of sorrow…In fact when Adam (man) and Eve (woman) fall in love then it is not love in their hearts only but love in their body as well and there sex supplements their love for their very existence…In fact it is not attraction of hearts only but genes also and that forces our all senses to work out with our complete ability and capacity for their union which is possible only through sex…Sometime it is temporary and sometime it is eternal…when it is eternal; our union or marriage is successful not only till our death but in some cases it goes beyond many lives…But when it is temporary; it results in termination of love affairs and marriages in course of time period…Love is not defined only in terms of physical pleasure or pleasure of union of genes only but it has many façade and colors in forms of other relations that we call family and friends, siblings, parents and so on…All sort of love needs scarification whether it is for your spouse, children, relatives or friends…and from time to time we do scarify; sometime to sustain it and sometime to get rid of it…That is the reason when we fall into love our next step is to be physical with each other…If we don’t get physical, love starts turning into respect and friendly association…and sometime into hates…What we need to understand is the real feelings of our heart and gene…whether we just want to carry our association through our hearts and/or through our gene…only then we can hold our love…When we listen to heart, it generates kindness…but when we listen to our gene, it makes us possessive and then our attitude is determined…Love & regards…Mohan   

Just Run Your Own Race... 

There will always be somebody ahead of you, someone with better job, nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a prettier wife, a more handsome husband, better behaved children, etc. But realize that "You can be the best that you can be, you are not competing with anyone...NOW YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS SAID “JUST RUN YOUR OWN RACE AND BE HAPPY FOR THERE IS NO COMPETITION IN DESTINY”…MOHAN

Her beauty...through my eyes...

There is something in her smile, in her eyes, in her timeless and natural elegance…I adore her for her beautiful lips that speaks only words of kindness, her beautiful eyes that look for the good in others…this is the beauty of my woman…Mohan

Even the best memories may have cracks...

In human life, the true story is the realization that no time is ever perfect, even the best memories in our life have cracks we might not ever see… every moment of life is important...try to capture the sweet memories therein...this is how we proceed to perfection in life...
Mohan

Happiness and Gratitude...

We look other people what we are inside…If you are a GOD trusting person, you always see better in every individual…this is the real blessings that GOD ever grace true people… Happiness is an emotion that needs the spirit of heart with your gratitude, to make presence felt all around you… Happiness cannot be owned; earned, worn or consumed…it’s pure reflection of purity at heart that leads to contentment…and CONTENTMENT is a spiritual experience of every living mind with love, grace and gratitude…Mohan

THE FLIGHT OF EAGLE...

The first flight of eagle that decides the course of its destiny...The normal age of an eagle is 40 years...but it has a power and will to live up to 70 years...How they increase those thirty years in their life is a sheer painful process...when eagle reaches its forty years of age, it becomes weak and helpless…It then goes to a peak of mountain and breaks its beak by constantly hitting the stones…it’s sheer painful…When the beak is plugged off, it awaits a new beak…After sometime when the new beak emerged it starts picking off  its feather and completely takes them of…And naturally after sometime, new feathers are grown up…and its new life to the eagle for another 30 years…

It also shows that when you pass through such painful process (of any kind) you emerge as a new and refined individual…

Stay blessed friends...Mohan

KEYS TO SELF-ESTEEM…

Never forget:

The most powerful force in life is HOPE

The greatest asset is FAITH 

The most powerful channel 

      of communication is      PRAYER

The greatest joy is in GIVING

The most crippling disease is EXCUSE

The most beautiful attire is A SMILE

Have a nice day...

Mohan

Impression…Expression…& Aura….

Three Things that determine our personality…Impression…Expression…& Aura….These qualities have apparent distinction and far reaching effect to form our perspective…Impression shows what is your apparent out-look (your physical structure and sense of dress code…but has minimum effect)…Expression determines your inner strength that includes your knowledge and wisdom (it has powerful effect)…and Aura…which is blend of your Impression and Expression…and has ultimate effect on others…If you feel weakness in your own qualities then who will appreciate you…You have to first take the lead and the people will follow you…Love your personality and have trust in your qualities…rest assured you will see the change in life…Mohan

PERFECTION AND JUDGEMENT...

Perfection is something that we misunderstand and so is judgment…No body is perfect for we keep learning all the times…and we need to be taught constantly…If somebody says he is perfect then that person is at par with GOD and himself is a GOD…Truthfulness itself is judgment because you need to be true first to be a judge to know the truth…Mohan

People those matter in life...

In Life you will realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet with.  Reasons make all the differences in life…therefore; never judge someone’s decision without knowing their reasons…it would be fair on your part…Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But the most important are the ones who bring out the best in you…respect you and accept you for who you are…Those are the ones worth keeping around…Never ever let them go…Mohan

LOVE & TRADE...

Late I started to realise that why do we suffer despite giving our all best to our beloved because we expect in return and when this return somehow due to any reason does not come back, we cry and repent and lose heart…If we analyze the situation we calculate our loss and profit and not LOVE or friendship…We simply need to value the sentiments of others specially in terms of human limitation…Have a blissful and happy life …Mohan

Disagreeing to Agreeing...

You can respect and understand the opinions of others without agreeing or giving in or allowing them to take advantage of you. Often you can learn much more from someone who disagrees with you than you can from those agree with you…because by this way you can see the other side of the coin as well…Mohan

Need for Self-Realisation...

Our habits transform into our attitude and that attitude with time turns into our ethics and our ethics become our religion of life...Everyone should   follow their belief whatever that could be...But just eat drink and be merry and make merry is not the purpose of life...besides we need self-realization, retrospection and nursing of soul for purification and submission to higher-up, we have to understand the origin and cause of our existence…and for that, studies of nature are inevitable…I don’t say one must do it…But my perception is that without  these realities, emancipation of soul is not possible…Mohan 

The effects of imprecations...

Bad-Dua (Imprecation) is a real curse...GOD says do whatever you can do on the earth under the sun, including any sin for that matter, I will not mind at all because it’s your learning as well...but if you cause a pain or be the cause of suffering to my any other living creature...I will not spare you because I am bound to act upon their malediction that comes from his heart...This is not a mere saying but an eternal fact...and that is main reason of our suffering and cycle of rebirth to pay off such deeds…So my dear never be a cause of pain or suffering to any other living creature...May god bless us all...Mohan