Is Love Blind...

Love is not blind but when we take it for our exclusive possession, we become blind and then try to hold it…At that point, love turns into our envy and becomes source of sorrow…In fact when Adam (man) and Eve (woman) fall in love then it is not love in their hearts only but love in their body as well and there sex supplements their love for their very existence…In fact it is not attraction of hearts only but genes also and that forces our all senses to work out with our complete ability and capacity for their union which is possible only through sex…Sometime it is temporary and sometime it is eternal…when it is eternal; our union or marriage is successful not only till our death but in some cases it goes beyond many lives…But when it is temporary; it results in termination of love affairs and marriages in course of time period…Love is not defined only in terms of physical pleasure or pleasure of union of genes only but it has many façade and colors in forms of other relations that we call family and friends, siblings, parents and so on…All sort of love needs scarification whether it is for your spouse, children, relatives or friends…and from time to time we do scarify; sometime to sustain it and sometime to get rid of it…That is the reason when we fall into love our next step is to be physical with each other…If we don’t get physical, love starts turning into respect and friendly association…and sometime into hates…What we need to understand is the real feelings of our heart and gene…whether we just want to carry our association through our hearts and/or through our gene…only then we can hold our love…When we listen to heart, it generates kindness…but when we listen to our gene, it makes us possessive and then our attitude is determined…Love & regards…Mohan